ANYONE'S thoughts are appreciated here...
We have been invited to a lot of weddings lately. That is a good thing - people like us. Or
do they??? Over the past couple of years, we have been invited to ten weddings, and we received invitations to some of them a week or so before the blessed event was set to take place. One of the prospective brides even called the week I gave birth to Andrew (knowing that), got our address, and sent an invitation to the wedding that was happening the following week (that we were obviously not going to be able to attend). It makes one wonder.... are the majority of prospective brides/grooms just in it for the gifts, or do they actually want our company at one of their most important life events? Here is the
MOST ANNOYING part of it all: Out of the past ten weddings we have been invited to and subsequently sent presents for, THREE brides have sent thank-you notes. To this day, I still have no idea whether or not those other seven received their gifts from us. And you guessed it - we are still awaiting any type of acknowledgement about the gift we mailed to the bride who invited us when Andrew was born (9 months ago).
Again, I am thankful to be invited to these events - God knows the social outlets are few and far-between when you become a new parent. However, I can't help but ask,
Am I too old-fashioned to expect a hand-written note after my careful review of couples' registries, trapsing up and down the aisles of Bed, Bath, and Beyond, selecting, purchasing, wrapping, and shipping a gift, or is my behavior just a simple expectation of today's wedding guests and I should get over it? Please check out the poll on the right and cast your vote.